O'Leary Family Journey

Halloween

2011-11-25T08:16:00.001-08:00

What a fun Halloween for the boys this year and thanks to Matthew who supplied the costumes. Austin was Peter Pan and Colby was Captain Hook. The only thing we couldn't find was a hat so I attempted to make one.

Sean had a party and went as Alfalfa. He decided to add the glasses for style.The boys also had a Halloween party at Taekwondo and Colby was Peter Pan and Austin was an astronaut.Another year of fun and way too much candy!

Turkey Bowl 2011

2011-11-24T18:31:00.001-08:00

What would Thanksgiving be without a good ole game of football. We had about 40 dads and sons show up for the Turkey Bowl today. Since we live in Utah it seemed to be Texas vs BYU. So we went prepared for the game. Love these boys....they make my heart smile
Colby was ready to get after those flags, even if Sean was on his team.Pat played in the adult game and thank goodness he did not hurt his knee or any other body parts. Pat loved being out there. Colby needed a lil break.
Austin grabbed the loose ball and he was off to the end zonePat was ready to launch.... It was a nice quiet Thanksgiving with my family and I couldn't have enjoyed it more. We had a nice meal, good football and lots of laughs. I am so thankful for my family because I am one blessed Mom.

Dinosaur Park

2011-11-22T19:10:00.000-08:00

We bought tickets to the local dinosaur park and thought the boys would love it. As it turned out Austin did love it and Colby was scared almost the whole time. It didn't help that Pat kept making noises as we would walk by one. And we are off to explore
These are our scary faces!
Austin's new friend
Colby not liking the new friend
Austin had on the perfect shirt

Sean's first hunting trip

2011-11-22T18:58:00.000-08:00

It was once again time for the annual deer hunting trip to Lusk, Wyoming. Sean was very excited that this year he was going. He completed all of his Hunter Safety requirements, got a new gun for his birthday and was ready for his first kill. This is Pat's.
Sean's first antelope!

So proud of him.

First morning out on the mountain waiting for a deer.

Sean now has the hunting fever and I am sure there will be many many more hunting trips with Pat.

WX Football Season

2011-11-22T18:05:00.000-08:00

Sean had a great season this year playing WX football. He continues to Z down due to his size for safety reasons. We made it to the playoffs but lost in the cold and snow. I really think Sean enjoyed himself this year and learned a lot. Final game
Nothing like several inches of snow to make for an interesting game

Sean scored several touchdowns this year
Pat was the head coach and did an exceptional job
Bloody nose
These pictures speak for themselves but he definitely felt this hit. I had a pit in my stomach but he got up and shook it off.
Great Season Sean and Job Well Done!

Yellow to Orange

2011-11-22T17:54:00.000-08:00

Colby and Austin continue to enjoy Taekwondo with Master Son. They have been training really hard to earn their next belt which is orange. Here are the boys at the end of their belt test. Austin was very happy to hear he had earned his orange belt and needed to remove his yellow belt.Removing their yellow belts and getting ready for their new orange belts.
Austin being presented his orange belt.

Colby being presented his orange belt.

So proud of the boys!

First Day of Kindergarten

2011-09-22T18:28:00.001-07:00

As I write this post, I just cannot believe my lil guys are not so lil anymore. Where has 5 years gone? Seriously I remember crying over their isolettes wondering if they would be able to go to school one day. I remember the first day of Montessori School and crying in the parking lot being so proud of them and the big first step of letting go. Now as Pat and I dropped them off at their first day of Kindergarten at Layton Christian Academy I shed more tears of happiness and thankfulness. I praise God that my lil guys have done as well as they have after such a rough start in life. They were nervous about their first day and meeting all new teachers and friends.
Colby and Austin are in different classes and even though they do a lot of activities together Pat and I felt it was very important for them to start becoming independent of each other. So far it has been the best decision.

Colby has Mrs. Strope who is new to LCA but not to teaching. This was right when he got to class and to his assigned seat.

Austin has Mr. Panter who has been at LCA for quite a few years and has a hat for everything and every theme you can think of.

Daddy walking them in.....

Mommy knowing I have to let them go....so proud of you Colby and Austin

All dressed and ready to go.

I was so happy to see them smiling and happy.

They each picked out their own backpacks and got matching ones. Wonder if they are just use to it. They have to wear uniforms to school so there is no real choice when it comes to clothes.

Mommy looks forward to wonderful year of firsts for both her boys.

I love you guys.

All smiles....great vacation

2011-09-22T18:20:00.000-07:00

As our vacation came to an end we took one more boat ride out to the dam and of course toasted a great week. Everyone knew if you saw me smiling with my green glass....life was good. Chelsey, Katy and me....
Not sure what Sean was doing but regardless he was smiling

Cheers!

One last photo and we headed back to the boat and back to NSL. What a great week with great friends that are like family to us.

Til Next Summer........

All about Sean

2011-09-22T17:54:00.000-07:00

Sean excellent at wake boarding therefore absolutely loved being on a lake for an entire week. One of the neat things at Lake Powell is a new wake boarding course. The boys would ride out on a jet ski and be dropped off at one end and the ski rope was attached to a pulley that then pulled them across and they could just learn how to perfect their wake boarding or could do jumps. Sean loved it. It could be set at different speeds depending on size of the person or ability level. Here are some snapshots of Sean.

Sean's first couple of runs were just to get the speed adjusted and to get use to the pulley system. Then during his 3rd run we had no idea and neither did the jet ski driver that he was going to attempt a jump. Needless to say it did not go well and he face planted the jump because it was bone dry. Before a person jumps the jet ski goes and sprays the jump several times to get it wet for the jumper. Sean soon learned to communicate with the driver.

Sean had an awesome experience definitely is looking forward to going back.

The long hike..

2011-09-01T19:49:00.001-07:00

In the middle of Lake Powell is a sand hill, mountain or whatever you want to call it. Our boys all climbed up to the top and would run all the way down into the water. I think Sean did it 3 or 4 times which is unheard of, which has to be a record. Usually once is enough for most. Here are some pics of my guys. Austin decided to take a little break on the way up. They even did it in their life jackets.Colby managed part of a piggy back ride from Sean on one trip up.Our boat is at the bottom of the sand hill. I was so proud of him.And here he goes, running all the way down.Austin finally made it too. I was so proud he did not give up.Sean loved it. He came down so fast it was crazy. Just some more fun we had and a chance for our boys to challenge themselves.

What to do at Lake Powell.....

2011-09-01T17:39:00.000-07:00

This is one trip our whole family looked forward to all summer. Some people ask, so what do you do at Lake Powell for a week....well the O'Learys have fun! We headed out to Lake Powell with our friend the Montrones and another family for a wonderful, relaxing week on the houseboat. It's so nice because there is something for everyone. The weather was perfect and we could not have had a better time.

Sean is quite good at wake boarding therefore he is always trying something new. He got the turning a 360 circle down and Colby and Austin thought he was so cool.
Sean also continued to practice on his slalom ski and is doing very well. He started feeling more comfortable cutting back and forth across the wake.Of course mom still had to show him how to really do it. Knee brace and all.This the top of the houseboat where Sean and Trevor would jump from.
My lil guys had fun on the slide.
Austin wasn't real sure about it the first time as you can see by his facial expression but once he did it once he was non stop.
Sean always trying something different.
Just some pictures of Sean skiing.Now Pat with his new expensive knee brace got out to show he still has it. He did very well and all the boys loved watching him.
And now for the big moment. Colby skiing. We could not get Austin to try and after working with Colby we were all tired so it was probably best.
Mom giving the pep talk about how well he was going to do and all he has to do is stand up.
All smiles before skiing....not a lot of smiles afterwards though.
Most days in one of the coves you would find Pat throwing the football with Trevor and Sean
Austin loved just floating around exploring
The boys were so good in the boat and loved taking turns being Daddy's co-captain. So many wonder what we do, well hopefully that gives you a brief idea of how much fun we have. Stay tuned for our next update on the rest of our fun.

Day at Utah Lake

2011-08-24T20:09:00.000-07:00

Back in Utah and we were ready to hit the lake for some swimming, skiing and fun.The boys love riding in the tube and I love Pat bought one that will allow all 3 of them to ride.
A big accomplishment for Sean this summer was learning to slalom. He got up on his 3rd try. I loved seeing the smile on his face that said "I did it".
Notice in July there is still snow on the mountain tops
Colby learned to stand up and thought he was so cool I love spending time with my family and since I grew up on a lake it makes me happy that all of my family loves being on a lake as well.

Fast toys for my boys

2011-08-24T20:03:00.000-07:00

It's always fun to go to a new home because there are always so many cool new toys and Alina's was no different. Sean will probably hate me one day for these pictures but he loved riding the mini motorcycle even if it was pink! Colby and Austin have decided they need one of these for Utah...maybe a different color though. Thanks for all the fun, Alina

Laughs at the pool

2011-08-24T19:57:00.001-07:00

We spent several days at the pool with Alina, Corrina, Ryan and Olivia. Our kids love the water and with it being so hot in Texas it was a perfect way to keep cool

Family Fun in Texas

2011-08-24T19:40:00.000-07:00

Thankfully this time we remembered to take some family photos. Pat's parents with their Grandsons
Three generations
Boys being boys...like father like son
Colby and cousin, RyanToo funnyPat, Mom and Sister Cindy
Love this picture...wow Sean is such a spitting image of his Dad
Time for the pencil Loving the pool Trying to walk on water Just the girls taking it easy Austin had to have the pink goggles for some reason
Love seeing my boys together with big smiles having fun! I am one lucky lady.

Lunch with the Kellers

2011-07-19T20:06:00.000-07:00

This summer we have been crazy busy with work, travel and fun. After returning from Fort Lee, VA we just repacked our suitcases and headed to Texas for the 4th of July weekend to see family and friends. I was so excited that John and Carla were willing to drive two hours to meet us for lunch. We had not seen them in almost 3 years and it was like old times. You know you are good friends when you can just pick up where you left off.We would love one day to live closer together. They are an awesome family and very special to us.

The last time John and Carla saw they boys they were getting ready to turn 2. They could not believe how big they were. They know to well what a blessing each boy is because they rode that NBICU roller coaster ride with us.

So this is just a funny one, because Austin had the camera and told me to lean forward...after I got home and downloaded the pictures, I realized what he was doing....pure boy!

Last day in DC

2011-07-19T19:58:00.001-07:00

Time to head back to Fort Lee, but what a fun weekend in D.C. and seeing the boys learn to appreciate their freedoms.

not sure which boy had the camera

just being silly

back to the car we go

Space Museum and National History Museum

2011-07-19T19:47:00.000-07:00

Just can't go into DC and not visit the space museum and museum of Natural History. The boys loved the space museum and have decided one day they may go into space.Colby needed to use the camera

Love my guys

waiting on the movie to start

quick break for lunch

Another fun day

Honoring our Soldiers

2011-07-19T19:32:00.000-07:00

This was another special part of our trip. We took the time to explain to the boys as much as we could what each monument or name meant. They were so good about paying their respect.In honor of all the women that have served
in honor of all the men that serve

a very touching moment and glad I caught it

The boys could not believe each name was someone that died for our country A sincere thanks to all of those that have ever worn the uniform, you will not be forgotten

Pat's old stomping ground....what a honor

2011-07-19T19:20:00.000-07:00

There is just nothing like the Honor of The Old Guard. Pat was a proud member of the Old Guard in his enlisted days in the Army. While in VA we took a trip to his old stomping grounds to show the boys where Daddy started his awesome career as a Soldier. Pat was on the drill team and took part in all the major ceremonies for the President of the U.S.

Austin giving his best salute from the reviewing stand where all the VIPs stand as the troops pass by.

out on the big parade field where a lot of ceremonies take place

On our way through Arlington National Cemetery

Daddy explaining what a hero Audie Murphy was

Austin paying his respect to all the fallen.

All through out Arlington, Austin would stop and salute

Changing of the Guard and wreath laying

We enjoyed this trip to show the boys that all the people buried there sacrificed something for them. We want them to grow to respect and appreciate the sacrifices our military members have made and continue to make.

I am also very proud to come from a military family and to have married one of the best Soldiers I know.

Busch Gardens...a day of too much fun

2011-07-18T20:13:00.000-07:00

Pat and I had a two week military course at Fort Lee, VA and we decided to make it a mini vacation for the boys. I was able to arrange for them to attend a summer camp on Fort Lee while we were in class each day. The weekend we flew in, we decided to take advantage of going to Busch Gardens because the military gets in free. Hey, we love free!The boys loved being there and would love to go back one day.
Good ole hug from Elmo They had an area that had all American Bald Eagles and it was totally open. All of the Eagles had been injured and were unable to fly. This was the boys' favorite.

Grasshoppers

2011-07-18T19:58:00.000-07:00

What a fun first year of t-ball for the boys. It was a little tough with an age bracket of 4-7 year olds but they did ok. Here are some pictures of our last game and their very first trophy ever. Not sure what Colby was doing but he made me smile

He was so proud!

Love my boys.

Colby taking a little break, because playing defense is hard

Hit it Austin!

Colby hates long shirts so as you can see he rolled the bottom of his shirt up and the sleeves.We are so proud of the boys for trying something new and sticking with it.

Zoo

2011-07-12T20:10:00.000-07:00

Our family loves the zoo, where ever we go especially if they get to ride a dinosaur.Colby was not wild about the dinosaurs and even broke down when Pat wanted to show him one up close.

Austin on the otherhand loved the dinosaurs.

Colby was trying to get away from having to look at the dinosaurs.

and the meltdown begins....bless his heart

His face breaks my heart because he was truly scared

He was more than happy to have the standard photo with the gorilla.

These were far enough away that Colby did just fine...or at least long enough for a picture

and a trip is not complete without a couple of rides. Austin always picks the polar bear he named Chilly.
and the final train ride

Woo Woo here we go!

End of soccer season

2011-07-12T19:59:00.000-07:00

As our soccer season comes to a close, here are a few pictures from our last game. Good job Bumble Bees!

This after Austin scored, probably the fastest he ran during the whole game.
The boys did great and had a lot of fun. They each scored during the season and they look forward to next fall.

Arrrgh...Happy 5th Birthday Austin and Colby

2011-07-12T19:26:00.000-07:00

Arrrgh....Happy 5th Birthday Austin and Colby.

Where have 5 years gone? I remember so vividly the day you born and how much you both scared me. I would have to say probably the most scared I have ever been in my life, because I was not ready to have you enter this world 3 months early.

I remember waking up and Daddy being there to tell me everything was going to be ok. He had seen both of you and told me you were both very small and with a tears in his eyes he told me you were beautiful and God was watching over you. I had no idea the journey our family was beginning but I will tell you I could not have done it without your Daddy! He was the strength during all those months in the NBICU. Our family and friends that stepped up to provide more support than I ever could have imagined. I don't think we cooked for three months. Now you are both very smart, handsome energetic young boys and I love every thing about you. I am so blessed that God entrusted me to be your mommy. I am not a perfect Mommy but I promise no matter what you will always have my unconditional love. I have learned that there is nothing in the world like being a mommy and there is definitely nothing like being a mommy to twin boys. Because I love you so much I let you pick the theme for this year's party and a pirate party we had. I am so proud of each of you and love you very much. Yes, Mommy made all 3 cakes!! They are not perfect but they were made with lots of love.Austin weighs 37. He loves to play dress up, usually a soldier, cop or worker. He can write his name, do addition and read. He loves art and games. Some of his favorite quotes are "OMG", "it must have been Colby", " I cannot do that because I am working". Austin is forever making us laugh. He played his first year of soccer and t-ball this year and did extremely well. He is currently a yellow belt in Taekwondo and should test for his orange belt soon. He loves Sean so much and is usually in his hip pocket. He is a very affectionate lil boy who loves to give hugs to everyone to include waitresses, teachers, flight attendants, pilots and pretty much anyone else that will let him. He had his first trip to Virgina and Washington D.C. and even made a trip to Texas. He is outspoken and loves to have a good time, he is the life of the party. Colby weighs 33 pounds. He is still my sweet lil guy. He loves to play on the IPOD and if you leave it around he will sneak it before you realize it. He loves to wrestle and play with swords and guns. He is always where ever we are and doesn't like to be left alone. He was the first to potty train which made Mommy really happy. His favorite candy is "starwars" or as we know them starburst. He can write his name really well, do addition, read and spell some words. Colby is a real Daddy's boy and always wants to do what Daddy is doing. He also played soccer, t-ball and is a yellow belt in Taekwondo. Taekwondo has been the best activity for Colby because it has allowed him to come out of Austin's shadow. Colby loves to swim and play outside. His favorite quotes are "it wasn't me", "that's too hard,I need to rest","It's your turn to clean up, I already had a turn". Colby is very shy and we are working on making him our lil social butterfly as well as Austin. Happy Birthday and thanks for a great 5 years! I cannot wait to see your accomplishments this year. We Love you!

Family pictures

2011-06-09T06:41:00.000-07:00

I am not quite sure what weekend or holiday these were taken but it's not often I have family pictures. I am guessing this was Easter weekend since Sean was not with us. I have to admit I hate when he is not with us because his spot in the picture is right behind Austin.

How handsome are my guys!

So there you have it, some recent family pictures.

Mother's Day

2011-06-05T18:49:00.001-07:00

For a very special amazing woman that I call Mom....Mommy Dearest you will always be

My mother so loving and so loved by me

For God has taken you to be by his side

Now in Heaven is where you will reside

You have blessed my life in so many ways

I will cherish our memories until the end of my days

You left me too soon and this was not part of our plan

But God's wishes always come before those of a man

Without you I must travel the path alone

No longer my guide, the way you had shown

Your heart may have been weak, but you were strong

For your loving embrace I will always long

God sent you to me as a special gift from above

To teach me life's lessons and shower me with your love

I will always remember your beautiful and smiling face

In my heart you will always have a very special place

A special bond we shared like no other

For this is possible for only a Daughter and Mother

I thanked God for each day we were able to share

But without you in my life it is too difficult to bear

Being with God, I hope you will find joy and peace

In this I can find comfort and some happiness at least

For Mommy Dearest you will always be

My Mother so loving and so loved by me

And then I became a Mom.....

It hasn't always been easy but being a mom has taught me so much and the most important thing is I never knew how much I could love someone. Being a mom has taught me patience and understanding and how deal with everyone else coming before myself.

And just when I thougth my life was fulfilled, I achieved the biggest accomlishment of my life. I am the very proud Mommy of two of the most precious boys in the world. I know without a doubt God chose me to be the Mommy to Colby and Austin and I can't thank Him enough.

My mom has this poem still framed at home and I love it....

There's two to wash, two to dry

Two who argue

And two who cry.

There's two to kiss

Two to hug

and best of all

Two to love!

Thank you God for blessing me with the most amazing mom and trusting me to raise your children. I am very lucky to have such a wonderful family and life has taught me to treasure each and every day and memory.

Daddy's birthday

2011-06-05T18:42:00.001-07:00

Guess who is a year older.....You got it, the smiling Daddy in the middle of all of his guys. When not sure what to get Pat for his birthday, we know something Longhorn is always a good idea.
I helped make these at work for Pat.

Just a lil safety to go along with his new bike.
Daddy had a great birthday and we thoroughly enjoyed celebrating with him. The boys are always up for a holiday that involves cake and ice cream.

We Love you Pat.

Batter Up....more T-Ball

2011-06-05T18:27:00.000-07:00

There are so many pictures of t-ball this year by playing two games every week but I picked some of my recent favorite ones to share. There is nothing like a father and son moment.....love this picture!
Silly batter....I love the smiles he gives me on a daily basis.

We have enjoyed the boys playing t-ball this year and I have enjoyed watching Pat bond with the boys. There is just something about a dad and his boys.

Gettting ready for Easter

2011-05-30T14:33:00.000-07:00

What is more fun than dying Easter eggs in our house. Nothing by the look on Pat's face. The boys were super excited to dye their eggs. So I boiled a dozen eggs thinking that would be more than enough. Austin and Colby are ready to get started
And he's off

Austin got his started as well

and if you notice there are not any more pictures because they each did one egg then wanted to go watch their TV show. Pat and I ended up doing the rest of the eggs. Next year we may stick to plastic.

For those that saw the Easter Movie Hop, he made his stop by our house and even left us proof that he hopped all over the house. In the movie, he pooped jelly beans so we found jelly beans all over our stairs and floors. The boys were very excited to see the jelly beans because they knew that meant he had been there but they refused to pick any of them up and put them in the trash can. Too funny!

You'll also notice Austin decided to get dressed in his Army clothes before coming downstairs.

Austin was happy to see his jelly beans in a bag.
Finding eggs.

One happy lil boy

Austin was shaking his egg to see if it was money or candy.

Stay tuned for more pictures of Easter egg hunting.

Boys start T-Ball

2011-05-30T14:21:00.000-07:00

As if we have a lot of free time in our lives we signed the boys up for their first year of T-Ball. They are the youngest on the team of Grasshoppers, which consists of 4-7 year olds. I happen to think that is a pretty large age gap, but we wanted them to get a taste of it this year. The good thing is they love it. In fact what was suppose to be T-Ball actually turned into coach pitch. They get 4 pitches and if they don't hit one of them, then they use the tee. So far the boys have been able to hit most of the pitches. Austin wating his turn to bat.
Colby waiting on his turn and was super excited

Austin wants them to hit the ball to him

Colby was tired and ready to go home because it got cold

Colby's first hit and he carried the bat all the way to first base

We are really enjoying the season and with only 4 games left, we are not sure what we will do with free time again. Keep up the good work Grasshoppers.

St Patrick's Day

2011-04-30T20:28:00.000-07:00

Oh how we love our family holiday....St Patrick's Day! This year was extra special because the boys tried something new. They attempted to catch a leprechaun. They spent one afternoon with Ms. Katy making their leprechaun catchers in hopes that one morning they would come downstairs and actually have one caught. The boys all decked out in green and even with green cinnamon rolls.

The wanted to make sure they had enough green on so no one would pinch them.

Here are their leprechaun catchers that they put out in a different place each night leading up to St Patrick's day. They were sure to have money on them hoping to entice the leprechauns to visit their box.

BUT, the morning of St Patrick's day, there were no leprechauns in the catchers but the leprechauns had been there and made the biggest mess. They had gone through our cabinets, drawers, pantry and thrown items all over the floor.

The boys just could not believe they made such a big mess.

Austin was very clear in that he was not cleaning up the mess because he had not made the mess this time.

We have loved sharing the holidays with the boys this year because they are finally at an age that they really get into it and I love seeing them react each morning at what is left for them.

Sean turns 13

2011-04-30T20:13:00.000-07:00

Where have the years gone? I remember the funny lil guy who was always so happy go lucky and how his eyes would light up at the sight of his Daddy. And now we have a 13 yr old. Time has flown by and he has become such a delightful teenager.
He is so good to his brothers and always tries to make them a priority even if it means skipping hanging out with friends to watch a movie with them. They worship the ground he walks on and I am so lucky he sets such a good example for them.

Since he is becoming a young man, we figured it was time to get him ready for some of the male family traditions such as the annual Wyoming trip with Grandpa Gregson and the gang. He had no idea he was getting a new gun, but he is now ready for the Hunter's Safety Course and good ole hunting trip this fall.

Sean, We are so proud of you and all of your accomplishments. You are an outstanding student and athlete and we look forward to what the future has in store for you. May you follow the path God has set for you and become the Christian man, father and husband so that your son will have the same sparkle in his eyes when he sees you.

Boys receive their yellow belts!!

2011-03-20T14:19:00.001-07:00

And the day the boys have been waiting for......geting their yellow belts. This smile brough tears to my eyes, because he was so proud of himself.

One more happy boy!

So proud of my lil yellow belts.

Yellow Belt Test

2011-03-20T13:34:00.001-07:00

What a big day for the boys as they tested for their first belt. The Yellow Belt. They both had worked very hard and were ready for the test. There were 3 judges and they performed perfectly. Both boys did each task correctly the first time they were instructed to perform. It was a very proud moment for this Mommy because all I could think about was 4 yrs ago I had no idea if they would even be able to participate in sports. I'll let the pictures tell the rest of the story.

Austin and Colby, we are so proud of you and look forward to your next test for your orange belt. Continue to work hard and one day you'll be testing for your black belt.

We love you!

Colby excels in Tae Kwon Do

2011-03-19T18:01:00.001-07:00

Colby has been the most excited about starting Tae Kwon Do. He really puts forth a lot of effort each day and practices at home every day as well. He was so proud when he earned his stripes on his white belt but his focus has been on getting his yellow belt. Colby and Austin are the youngest in the class and the only 4 year olds taking Tae Kwon Do. They go 4 days a week for 30 minutes each. We go right after school and it's actually a great way to burn some of their energy.

Colby doing some of his blocks.

No one wants to mess with this tough guy

Awesome kicks

I love these pictures of Colby

Colby continues to work hard and I know with his determination he will do extremely well when he tests for his yellow belt.

Austin begins Tae Kwon Do

2011-03-15T18:51:00.000-07:00

We have been discussing getting the boys involved with an activity that teaches discipline, respect and also an activity that requires them to focus and practice to become better. We decided on Tae Kwon Do. Austin is doing really well and we love that Master Son requires respect and discipline.
Austin has really excelled in his kicks

We are looking forward to Austin's first test for his yellow belt.

Snowman

2011-03-15T18:41:00.000-07:00

I was so glad Pat was home this year for our annual snowman. Last year it ended up looking more like a girl so this year we hoped to make it a boy. Colby was torn on whether to put the snow on Daddy or the snowman
Daddy starts to create the master piece

And the final result

yeah even Mommy got in the picture. We just kept our fingers crossed that the deer would not eat everything off the snowman like last year. Deer love Oreos!

The boys were very proud of their snowman.

Snowball fight!!!

2011-03-14T19:41:00.000-07:00

We cannot let a winter go by this year without a good ole snowball fight. The boys found their snowball makers, yes you read that right. We have snowball makers that make the perfect snowball. And the boys got to work making as many as they could to prepare to take Daddy on.
Austin is ready for war....Colby is still debating if they need more.

"Take that Daddy"

Oh no, we are out of snowballs and Daddy is really getting us now.

Colby, got it good! Daddy dumped a whole bowl on Colby and he just loved it and laughed

The face of a trooper!

" Daddy better watch out because I am going to get him now"

"This is going to be a really good one"

'Watch out Mommy, I will get you too"

Valentine's

2011-03-14T19:35:00.001-07:00

It was time for the school Valentine's party and of course the boys needed something to put all of their Valentine's and treats in. It's not like when we were kids and it was simple paper Valentine. Oh no, now it's pencils, candy, fruit snacks or stickers that have to accompany the lil cards and you don't want your kid to be the one who doesn't bring something. Pat always reminds me to make whatever we are doing....boyish! So instead of the typical valentine box with hearts all of them we made dinosaur sacks. Nothing says I love you like a green dinosaur sack. Really the boys were so proud.

The sacks came home full and the boys were happy....Mission accomplished.

Hair Cuts

2011-02-04T11:20:00.000-08:00

Two new pillow pets, four pairs of scissors= two boys in trouble!We caught Colby and Austin giving haircuts to their new pillow pets last night. When we asked them why they did they, they responded "because we wanted them to be handsome people like us"

Pat sent them to their rooms so we could laugh without them seeing us. We were just happy they did not cut each other's own hair.

I went upstairs and heard them discussing the haircut.

Colby: We are in trouble

Austin: yes and you went first which you should have not done

Colby: I know

Austin: We should not have gotten the scissors

Colby: I know

Austin: Even the barbers don't cut pillow pets

Colby: I know

Austin: We just wanted them to be happy

Colby: I know

Austin: I wonder if we will get them back

Colby: I don't' know but we better clean our room because Daddy is coming and we don't want a spanking.

Nothing we can do but laugh at this one. We can't be there at all times and I am just thankful it was not my couch or their own hair. I love my boys and the silent laughs they give me at times.

Wonderful Mom

2011-01-17T20:01:00.001-08:00

I found this poem from several years ago and wanted to post it because I don't remember ever sharing it.

There are women that become mothers without effort, without thought, without patience or loss and though they are good mothers and love their children, I know that I will be better.

I will be better not because of genetics, or money or that I have read more books but because I have struggled and toiled for these children.

I have sat in the NBICU and waited.

I have cried and prayed.

I have endured.

Like most things in life, the people who truly have appreciation are those who have struggled to attain their dreams.

I will notice everything about my boys.

I will take time to watch my children sleep, explore and discover.

I will marvel at my surviving miracles every day for the rest of my life.

I will be happy when I wake in the middle of the night to the sound of my child, knowing that I can comfort, hold and feed him and that I am not waking to a nurse taking another temperature, an alarm going off, another round of meds or because I am crying tears for fear of the unknown.

I will be happy because my babies are alive and crying out for me.

I count myself lucky in this sense; that God has given me this insight, this special vision with which I will look upon my child that my friends will not see.

Whether I parent a preemie with physical challenges or medical issues, I will not be careless with my love.

I will be a better mother for all that I have endured. I am a better wife, a better aunt, a better sister, daughter, neighbor, and friend because I have known pain.

I know disillusionment as I have been betrayed by my own body.

I have been tried by fire and hell many never face, yet given time, I stood tall.

I have prevailed.

I have succeeded.

I have won. So now, when others hurt around me, I do not run from their pain in order to save myself discomfort. I see it, mourn it and join them in theirs.

I listen.

And even though I cannot make it better, I can make it less lonely. I have learned the immense power of another hand holding tight to mine, of other eyes that moisten as they learn to accept harsh truth and when life is beyond hard. I have learned compassion that only comes with walking in those shoes.

I have learned to appreciate life.Yes, I will be a wonderful mother.

My boys....what else can I say

2011-01-17T19:53:00.001-08:00

The boys have started Karate lessons and are doing so well. Colby is really excelling and coming out of his shell and out from Austin's shadow. Austin just thinks it's fun but Colby is really working to earn his first stripe towards his next belt. He loves to practice at home and is always ready for each lesson. Austin is my silly son who I never know what he is doing behind my back until we see the picture.
My 3 boys in the "egg" at the Arch in St Louis

I've learned as a Mom of 3 boys, that sometimes my life is not about baking, pedicures, manicures, shopping and lunch dates but it's about Monster Trucks. We took the 3 boys to the annual Monster Truck show and they loved it. Though it was loud, they would squeal each time a car got crushed.

Colby and Austin were part of a football game half time show called "Bulldog Boogie". They were given Bulldog hats and can be seen quite often wearing them.

There is no doubt my boys love their Mommy and usually make it a point to sympathize with my aches and pains. In this particular photo they are sympathizing with me after my knee surgery and me having to walk on crutches so they made their own crutches at the pharmacy with walking canes.

I love my boys and even though my house will never be filled with dolls, princesses or easy bake ovens, these boys have completely filled my heart. I can't imagine not being a Mommy to boys.

The latest with Colby

2011-01-17T19:49:00.001-08:00

Colby is still my love who just wants to be like his Daddy. He is without a doubt, a Daddy's boy, unless he is sick, tired or needs help in the bathroom then he wants his Mommy. I love watching him find his own identity and remove himself from Austin's shadow. He is such a sweet, easy going boy who just wants to make us proud.Colby also loves to play Soldier and here is his latest picture as Soldier Colby.
I am so proud of Colby and how well he is doing in school and home. He has begun Karate lessons and loves it. I think we have found the right activity for him because he is excelling and gets recognition in every lesson for doing so well.

The latest with Austin

2011-01-17T19:26:00.001-08:00

Austin always has us laughing at his creativity and imagination. He is outspoken and usually never quiet. When he plays he always has to be somebody such as a construction worker, soldier, chef, policeman etc. and he have to address him as such. Here are few pictures I found on our cell phones that I couldn't resist sharing. This is about the only time he is quiet.
My cowboy!
Soldier Austin...make sure you check out his shoes.
Austin is one of the loves of my life and considering how he entered this world and the medical battles he fought, he has without a doubt earned a purple heart. He is a very special boy who just wants to fill every one's heart with love and smiles. I just hope he doesn't give Mommy gray hair.

Pics with Santa

2011-01-17T19:09:00.001-08:00

What would the Christmas season be without going to see Santa's helpers several times. The boys were not shy at all and were very specific this year in what they wanted.
Sean was a team player and I am not sure if he knew anything to tell Santa.
Sweet Colby asked for a tiger pillow pet and robot

Austin who had on the the perfect shirt (80% naughty and 20% nice) asked for a Soldier Bible to carry to church and a camera. He had been asking for a Soldier Bible for almost a year and was so excited to see it Christmas morning.

I on the other hand was just happy to know I would be with my family and friends for a nice, quiet (sort of) Christmas at home. We are all healthy, happy and blessed and I couldn't ask for anything more.

A happy family is but an earlier heaven

2011-01-12T19:39:00.000-08:00

I am one lucky lady to have this wonderful family. We aren't perfect but our house is full of love, respect, fun and we teach our children to follow the path God has provided for them."Whatever they grow up to be, they are still our children, and the one most important of all things we can give them is unconditional love. Not a love that depends on anything at all except that they are our children."
"God sends children to enlarge our hearts and make us unselfish and full of kindly sympathies and affections"

What would a family photo shoot be without one funny!

"Other things may change us, but we start and end with family"

"You don't raise heroes, you raise sons. And if you treat them like sons, they will turn out to be heroes, even if it's just in your own eyes"

"The love of a family, is life's greatest blessing"

"To us, family is putting your arm around each other and being there"

"Any man can be a father, it takes someone special to be a Dad"

"The house does not rest upon the ground but upon a woman" "There has never been, nor will there ever be, anything quite so special as the love between a mother and a son"

Christmas 2010

2011-01-12T19:14:00.001-08:00

What does Christmas morning bring the O'Leary Family? Lots of excitement, energy and smiles! I guess our family has been exceptionally good this year with all the nice gifts Santa dropped off in Utah for us. The boys went to sleep pretty easy on Christmas Eve night and luckily there was not a lot of assembling to do this year. Pat, Daddy and I stayed up and watched a movie and just enjoyed the peace and quiet before the tornado of excitement hit the next morning. As you can see I have two very happy boys Christmas morning! Well my other two bigger boys were pretty darn happy to but you can't see them so take my word for it.

The funny part of Christmas morning was Pat and I were awake around 6:00am listening for the boys to wake up. They all slept in the same room so we were hoping Sean would be able to keep them upstairs...ok, that didn't happen. Austin came in around 6:30 and we put him in bed with us. He kept begging to play with a tool set from Matthew and Lauren, until Pat finally got up and went downstairs to get it. He sat in our room and played while Pat and I got up to get ready. A few minutes later Sean came in and was talking with Austin as he played quietly. As Pat and I were brushing our teeth we heard Colby yelling from downstairs that Santa came and brought him a camera and he started naming the unwrapped gifts. I quickly went to the stairs and told him to get upstairs with Austin and Sean. When he got upstairs, I told him not to say anything about what he saw because Austin had not seen anything. Colby proceeded to tell me, "well I was just going to tell Austin I saw a camera for him". Once Austin heard that he was ready to go! Pat and I got downstairs with Daddy and had them sit on the stairs until we get the cameras ready. Daddy happened to be downstairs when Colby snuck down and he said Colby walked around looking at everything. What a little stinker! Next year we'll be sure to tell them to come to our room when they wake up or make them sleep in our room so they can't escape.

I love Colby's "Christmas spirit" in this picture. His expression says, "yes, I already peeked!"

The boys were ready to get serious about their Santa sacks and gifts.

I got all the boys nerf guns for gun wars and they even got me one so needless to say, we have had several gun wars in our house.

Sean got each of the boys a Woods Cross sweatshirt to wear to his football games next year.

Pat gave Sean one of our Army flight jackets with patches from Iraq and units we have been in while serving in the military.

I guess I was the best Mom this year since I really got spoiled. Not only did I get an I touch but all the boys got me a chocolate diamond necklace. It's so pretty and different. Colby did ask if he could taste it...hee hee.

Love all of my boys!

We had such a wonderful Christmas and I loved staying at home and just enjoying my family and friends. I am so blessed to have such a wonderful husband who always makes my holidays special and I am a very lucky daughter whose Daddy came to spend time with us this year and enjoy his grandsons. There are so many days I just wish Mom could be here to enjoy them as much as we do. I am very excited for 2011 and to see what wonderful memories we are going to create.

Christmas Eve Traditions 2010

2011-01-05T18:38:00.000-08:00

What would Christmas be without our Christmas Eve traditions....boring. One of my traditions is decorating Christmas cookies and getting them ready for Santa. This year we all got involved to include Pat and Sean. I think they were doing it more for a competition, but nonetheless they did it. The boys and I made the dough, cut the cookies and baked them the day before so they were nice and ready to decorate the next day. The good part is that it gave me a rest since the whole baking the cookies takes awhile and since I was recovering from knee surgery I couldn't' stand for long periods of time.

Austin did really well this year by keeping the shakers out of the icing on his cookies. He likes a lot of sprinkles and decorations on his where Colby is a little more simple. Just a few work for him.
As, always we have fun no matter what we are doing and this year was no different.

Sean spent about 20 minutes on his one cookie and the boys did about 5 during the same amount of time. I think he was trying to beat his Dad.

Our final products. I would say Pat probably won but only because I was helping the boys more than doing my own.

Colby's for Santa is the upside down Gingerbread man at the bottom but then he changed to the striped Candy Can in the middle with the swirl. Sean's is the white snowman on the bottom right that took him 20 minutes. And Austin's is the skinny snowman at the top center with green eyes and buttons!

Then we moved on to another tradition. We all went to Church for our Christmas Eve service which is always very special. There was a full church but we were able to get seats close to the front so the boys could see as well. After church we swung through Sonic for our favorite sodas we headed home and put our new PJ's on.

Pat always reads the story from the Bible and Twas the Night Before Christmas. It was amazing how much the boys learned this year. They would tell everyone that it Jesus' birthday and that he was born in a manger with animals around. They would say that his mom is Mary and his dad is Joesph. It makes me proud to see them learn the real meaning of holidays and yet still enjoy the fun side as well.

As a nice surprise and since they were so good listening on Christmas Eve at home and Church they were allowed to open on Christmas gift and they both chose the gifts from Matthew and Lauren. Personally I loved their gifts more than they did....well at least the blankets.

The funny part is I have a gray Razorback blanket that Ann-Marie gave me before the boys were born. Colby knows that is my favorite blanket and any time I sit down on the couch he goes and gets it for me. Well his blanket is black and I asked him one day if I could use the black blanket and his response was "no Mom, you have your own so you need to use the gray one and leave my alone".

The cookies and milk are ready and everyone in their new PJs and ready for a good nights sleep and a very busy day on Christmas Day.

I love my family and the time we got to share together over the holidays. I loved having my Dad fly out to Utah for a few days because we don't get to see him enough. Stay tuned for Christmas Day activities.

School Christmas Program

2011-01-05T18:26:00.000-08:00

The boys had their annual Sunrise Montessori School Christmas Program and they were dressed as shepherds. They sang a few songs and enjoyed dinner at the school. Of course the best part was Santa showing up. He was the same Santa that visited last year and that to hide from the boys in the parking lot so they wouldn't' see him getting into his car and driving away.

Colby was telling Santa he wanted a pillow pet and camera.

I am not sure where they are learning to smile but gotta love it because they both smile this way all the time now.

Singing their song before Austin knocked off the sheep's hat.

The boys had a great time and I am very thankful Pat was here to enjoy it this year.

Trip to St Louis

2011-01-05T18:12:00.000-08:00

The Army has come up with a program for all deployed Soldiers called the Yellow Ribbon. There are 7 events some are prior to deployment and some are after deployment. These conferences are for the Soldiers and their families and friends to help in the transition of having a Soldier home again. Pat and I have to attend 3 of these and we were fortunate our first one was in St Louis, MO. We packed up the boys and flew for a weekend and the best part is my family drove to St Louis for the weekend.

Dad, Ann-Marie, Nate, Matthew and Lauren all stayed the weekend with us in St Louis and while Pat and I were in classes, Colby and Austin got to spend the day with their cousins. We we made it to the zoo which was really neat and the boys went to the city museum which is apparently so much fun. On our last day we headed to the Arch.

The boys were amazed at how much they could see from the top of the arch and how high up we were. It had been a long time since I had been to St Louis but since Nate is from that area his parents also got to have dinner with all of us. It's always nice to be sent to an area where we have family since we don't get to visit very often.

Facebook discussion

2010-12-17T12:45:00.000-08:00

Pat and I were sitting on the couch one evening and the boys were playing at the coffee table. Here is what we heard.

Austin: Colby do you want to be my friend?
Colby: Yes, I do
Austin: Well do you have facebook?
Colby:Yes, I think so
Austin: Well you can only be my friend if you have facebook.
Colby: Then yes, I have facebook
Austin: Ok then you can be my friend.

I got tickled and asked Austin what Facebook was...

Austin very serisouly stated: Well ya see, I have a face and I have a book so I have facebook.

Love the way kids think!

Trick or Treat

2010-12-17T12:20:00.000-08:00

Watch out, it's the toughest superheroes you've ever seen.

I wasn't allowed to pick costumes this year or I of course would have picked pairs. I just think it's so cute but the boys were not having it. They have a mind of their own and I learning to appreciate it and support it. It's tough seeing them grow up and become so independent, but it also makes me proud of my lil guys. Halloween was a lil let down this year, as it was pouring down rain, hailing and strong winds made for very short trick or treating for our family.

We did manage to catch a short break in the weather and headed out to knock on some doors. After the boys had gotten more than enough candy we stopped by friends' house for some drinks and more candy for the boys.

Colby made it Austin's job to ring the doorbell or knock on the door.

I couldn't believe how much candy they got but more importantly I'm was just happy to see a smile on their face and to have Daddy out with us. Because it was raining so bad, Daddy drove the car and I walked the boys up to the door. We only had one house that scared Colby. It was a half man/half horse and Colby froze in place. He couldn't say anything so Austin did the talking. After the man closed the door, Colby said "well that was the scariest thing I have ever seen". Colby told everyone about the man all night and it just made me smile. I love seeing the world and holidays through the eyes of a child. That is why I cannot wait for Christmas.

Knights at school

2010-12-17T11:26:00.001-08:00

Guess what mom, we are going to be knights at school. Oh really when? Tomorrow. Tomorrow!! What a challenge for mom. Of course I set out to make them the cutest, toughest knights in Sunrise Montessori school and I had one night to do it. So with a stop by the dollar store and some creative thinking I set out to work. I even had the boys helping paint their shields. And here are my knights. I didn't get to all of the armor but they were totally happy with their costumes and that made me happy. They could not wait to wear them to school for the big parade and party.

Colby ditched some of his costume and decided to use his helmet for candy.

Austin was very happy to see me a along their parade route.

I have come to the conclusion that I will never have fairies, princesses, queens, or cute girly costumes in my home, therefore I promise Austin and Colby to always ensure they are the coolest and toughest in costume. I love my boys and being a mom of all boys is a challenge at times but I wouldn't change it for the world. I love sticks, rocks, bugs (ok maybe not bugs) trucks and sports and I love my boys. Thank you God for blessing me with 3 amazing sons. I know will never give me more than I can handle, even if it is short notice.

Pumpkin family

2010-12-17T10:58:00.000-08:00

How fun it was for Daddy to be with us this year for Halloween. We didn't make it to the annual hayride to get pumpkins due to rain but I did take the kiddos out to pick up pumpkins. Of course everyone in our family gets one. Pat loved how we did them this year because it meant he didn't have to clean out 3 pumpkins. Everyone was suppose to be making scary faces. I think Colby might have been the only one that achieved his. Sean definitely did not. Colby was very proud he did his all by himself this year.
Austin's was very similar to last year but that just means his likes it.

Pat enjoying making his pumpkin double sided. One side was happy pumpkin and the other side was scary pumpkin.

My boys and their pumpkins.

Austin needed a little help and actually let me help him instead of Daddy.

Sean was creating his master piece.

The gang...

Now with Daddy!

I love seeing these smiles because Daddy is home. Last year was just not the same.

Fall Football

2010-11-14T18:30:00.000-08:00

What would fall be without football. In our house we can't imagine it. Our family looks forward to football and these year was no different. Sean was the starting quarterback and did an awesome job. We watched him grow in so many ways over the course of the season. A great run by Sean but the opposing team was waiting on him. CRUNCH!

Sean even had several kicks as well this season which was also new for him.

The most awesome coach. He just has such a love for football and those boys. We look forward to next year when he should be the head coach and will really be able to make an impact on the team.

Pat is by far Sean's biggest fan. He was always there to guide and mentor him. Even when he had to sneak away from duty with the Reserves, Sean always comes first.

Sean took a pretty good sack, but the most impressive part is he got back in the game to lead his team to a victory.

Love this picture because it is two of my favorite men in my life. I love watching the two of them during football and how much Pat works with Sean to ensure he is always ready to "command his troops" on the field.

We closed the season by making the playoffs and even though we didn't win the championship, our boys were all champions in my book. Sean, you are an awesome son and I am so proud of you and all that you accomplished this season. I am proud of the leader you have become and I look forward to next year. Go Wildcats!

First snow fall....Oct 25th!

2010-10-25T13:25:00.000-07:00

We had our first snow fall last night which resulted in about 2 inches in our yard. My conversation with the boys.

Mommy goes in to wake the boys up for school.

Mommy: Oh boys, wake up, guess what is in our yard.
Austin: Pumpkins
Mommy: No not pumpkins, it's white and cold
Colby jumps out of bed and yells: SNOW
Austin jumps up and says, Oh my gosh, it's Christmas today.

Then the disappointment came when I told them it was not Christmas and that they still had to go to school.

Funnies by Colby and Austin

2010-10-22T12:59:00.001-07:00

There are many days that my boys have me in stitches laughing. Some days it's laugh or cry but I wanted to make sure they have some of the funnies to read one day to their kids.

So let's begin.

Mom's in the bedroom cleaning up and Austin comes in holding out his hand.
Austin: Mom here.
Mom not looking: sticks her hand out and says what is it
Austin as he puts it in Mom's hand says: "Smell it"
Mom yells: Ughhhhh what is this?
Austin: Poop
Mom: whose poop?
Austin: Colby's
Mom: What are you doing with Colby's poop
Austin: It was on the floor so I wanted to show you.
Mom gagging severely runs to the bathroom, flushes poop, cleans and sanitizes mom and Austin until hands are red and raw.

Mom goes to find Colby who was on the toilet in the bathroom pooping. Apparently on the way to the bathroom a piece fell out of his underwear so Austin wanted to make sure I knew about it.

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Austin and Colby arguing in the kitchen.

Austin to Colby: stop bothering me
Colby: No
Austin: then I am not going to talk to you
Colby: really
Austin: I am not going to talk to you, until, until, until Christmas!
Colby: ok

Mom: Oh I wish that might be true but I bet he talks to you in less than 5 minutes.

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Austin getting picked up from school:

Mom: Did you have a good day?
Austin: Yes
Mom: Did you get in trouble today?
Austin: Yes
Mom: What did you do?
Austin: Well I was trying to learn about private parts in the book and Lilo came over laughing and made me laugh too.
Mom: Well that's not nice. What private parts were you learning about?
Austin: The boobies and bum bums because I need to learn about those in the book at school.
Mom: Tomorrow why don't you pick a different book about animals.
Austin: ok but I was really trying to learn about the private parts.

I had him tell Pat about getting in trouble:
Pat: That's my boy!

Gosh I love having boys but what a handful.

First Year of Soccer

2010-10-18T18:30:00.000-07:00

One of the best parts about being a mom is seeing my miracle boys grow and learn. It always touches my heart to see them doing something for the first time, when 4 years ago I had no idea if they would be able too. I am not sure who was more excited about Austin and Colby starting soccer this year, me or Pat. Pat took them to buy new cleats and shin guards and I took care of the shorts and jerseys. They were without a doubt the youngest and smallest on their team since most of the kids were 5 and played last year, but they did great. Here is some great team work, Colby is #2 and Austin is #4. They got to pick their own number and I think Austin thought he had to pick #4 because he is four years old.
"hey wait a minute, I have an itch"
Yes, only a mother would do this to her child.

"oh man, it still itches"

Austin not waiting because he is headed for the goal

Both back in action. Both boys scored a goal this year which made them both very happy and Mommy too.

Colby starting off one of the games with his "big kick". He was funny because he would ask, "big kick or little kick?" of course I always said "BIG KICK"

Colby and Austin ready for their first game.

I told them they had to be tougher than that....and here is what I got.

I loved watching them play though Pat kept having to remind me that they are only 4 years old. I just wanted them to at least kick it towards the right goal, which they did the majority of the time. This picture is evidence that Colby was the smallest on the team.

He might be small but he was tough. Must be the Watson blood in him. I know Grandma was looking down proud to see her Grandsons mixing it up with the older kids.

Some nice footwork by both boys. Austin was known to lose his cleat at least once very game and could also be found doing cartwheels during game.

Colby on the other hand like to just run along side of everyone. There were times he would sneak in, get one kick then out for fear of being taken down.

We look forward to next spring and watching to see how they do after playing one season.

20 Year Class Reunion

2010-10-11T19:59:00.000-07:00

Wow, where did 20 years go? Our Wynne High School Class Reunion. This quilt was given to a classmate when she graduated and it had all of our names on it.

One of my best friends from High School, Jodi Smith Hess. It was so great to see her. It had been almost 20 years and that is just way too long.

I couldn't have been more proud to take my wonderful husband with me. I know he laughed most of the evening and even the next day but I was glad he got a quick glimpse into what made me who I am today.

Having a good ole time.

It's always nice to know my sis will always be at events like this and it makes me realize how lucky Austin and Colby are because they will always have a best friend.Ok, we are really starting to have a good time.

I got the certificate for coming the longest distance. Over 1,500 miles traveled to visit family and friends.

My other date, Matthew stopped by on his way to Pap-Pa's. I couldn't even get him out on the dance floor.

Of course Lou Lou made our cake...who else!

It was a nice evening with friends that I haven't seen in 20 years. I look forward to the next one, just hope it's not another 20 years.

Skiing, Skiing and more skiing

2010-10-11T19:28:00.000-07:00

We weren't sure how the boys would do trying to ski but we decided we don't have many opportunities in Utah to try. Trying to teach 4 year olds to ski takes at least 4 adults. One to drive the boat, (duh), one to hold the rope in the boat, one to hold the boys in their skis in the water and one to cheer and take pictures in the event they actually get up. So Aunt Anna, Uncle Nate, Daddy and Mommy loaded all the kiddos up in one of Pap-Pa's boats and headed out to give it at try. Colby, Lauren and Austin waiting to their turn to try.

Colby wasn't real sure about getting out there by himself, not knowing Daddy was going with him.

Pat, relaxing before all the work begins.

Colby was up first. He wasn't real sure he wanted to do it and in fact said many times he would try the next day. The only problem was we were leaving the next day. So Daddy is giving him the big boy pep talk.

And here he goes. Hold on Colby and stand up!

Yeah, he did it. He actually went quite a ways before falling and being such a big boy, he went again.

I was so proud of him as you can only imagine a mom would be. I think the whole lake heard us yelling for him.

Then of course we have Matthew how had no issues getting up and skiing. His whole goal was to make the boys laugh in the boat.

Now it was Austin's turn and we could tell he was going to be a little more difficult than Colby. He really did not want to try but we made him. His expression says it all.

And here he goes. It would have helped him a lot if his skis were out of the water instead of under, but he did great.

Austin pretty much stayed in the squatting position the whole time. He never would stand all the way up. Guess he thought the fall wouldn't hurt as bad if he was closer to the water.

Lauren was the last and she was very determined to get up and ski as you can tell by her expression. She was not going to let any of the boys out due her. Wonder where she gets that mindset, gotta be the Watson blood in her.

Now she is having fun and smiling. She went all over the lake.

Our awesome boat driver and her assistant. Not sure how much of a help Austin was but he enjoyed driving the boat with Aunt Anna.

Our fan club! Lou Lou and Mike had the best seats on the lake to watch all the kiddos. What a great day we had on the lake. All of the kids slept like rocks that night and the adults loved it! I just love going home and taking my family to do the things I grew up doing. I learned to ski on Horseshoe Lake and that is wear Natalie, Sean, Colby and Austin have all learned to ski. That makes it all very special to me and hopefully them as they get older and look back on this blog. All 3 of my boys learned to ski at age 4 and that is something to be proud of. Thanks Pap-Pa for letting us visit and create some awesome memories.

Arkansas Lake Fun

2010-09-29T18:28:00.000-07:00

We were so excited for a quick trip to Arkansas to visit family and friends and attend my 20 year class reunion. The reunion update will be later but for now I wanted to talk about about my boys and their love of water. They took swim lessons but there is a big difference in a pool where they can see the bottom and the lake where they can see nothing. They were bound and determined to be big like Matthew, Sean and Lauren and to do everything they did. Pat and Mike watching Austin jump from the "Big Boy" jump.

and there he goes.

Pat got creative and had the kids jumping over floats. Believe it or not both Colby and Austin made it every time.

Matthew needed more of a challenge so he had to jump and try and catch a football Pat would throw at him.

Lauren and Colby having fun in the water, where else would they be.

So leave it to my Austin to get caught running around naked. He was smart enough to pick up his beach ball for cover. I love these expressions. He is definitely saying "Mommmmm stop".

Colby and Austin loved the noodles to help them float.

And back to more jumping.

They wore Pa-pa's pier out while we were there and the best part is they slept like a rock every night. All the grandkids love going to Pa-pa's lake house because they play all day, every day.

What a great vacation with my best friend who was not around much last summer due to being in Iraq. It was so nice to see him playing with the boys and Matthew and Lauren. It was so wonderful to relax, laugh and spend time with my family.

My handsome husband who I love very much and am so glad he was there with me.

Camping in Green River

2010-08-06T19:59:00.000-07:00

We camped in Green River park which we weren't sure about until we got there. No one had ever stayed there that we knew of and as we drove into town, I got worried. The town had one grocery store, one restaurant and one truck stop. Once we pulled through the gate we saw a very nice campground right next to a golf course. Pat immediately had wished he had brought his golf clubs. We actually had the two nicest spots in the campground.
The boys loved helping set up the tent and exploring. They also became true boys and climbed their first tree. They did pretty good going up but both got stuck and couldn't get back down.
I love seeing them grow and become young boys, moving out of the toddler phase that is for sure.

Austin was so proud of himself.

and of course there is only one way to end a camping trip....with a bandage. No, it was not from the tree but falling down the steps of the Fontenots camper. He was a trooper but it sure left its mark.

All in all what a great trip to Lake Powell and ending with a four day camp out.

Goblin Valley

2010-08-04T19:22:00.000-07:00

We took a short day trip to Goblin Valley and it was right down the boys' lane. Most of the rocks were small enough they could climb on them and climb they did. Austin was leading the way and doing a great job until....
he got tired a needed a ride from Bryce.

Double trouble

Love seeing my boys have a great time exploring

Just a quick break

Hero man!

I love my family

Yes, Pat thinks he is king

Sean and Bryce at the top, no one else had the energy or desire to climb to the top

Silly boys no matter where we go

tough too, just look at their muscles. They must be Arkansas tough.

Mom and her boys taking a little break and enjoying the view

Love hanging out with Sean. What an awesome kid.

This one way to show just how neat this place is when comparing it to us.

This is one of my favorite photos, love this guy.

Daddy and his boys

One of the rock formations as we were leaving.

This was a really neat place and I am so glad we spent the day there with the kids. They all enjoyed it and they all slept well that night too.

Lake Powell Fun

2010-08-04T18:16:00.000-07:00

We had the privilege to spend a week of our summer vacation with our friends the Montrone's on a houseboat in Lake Powell. I do believe at one time there were about 22 people on the boat. We had a great time. Here is a photo of the cove and the houseboat. It was was peaceful and calm. From the top deck, this is where we would sit at night and have dinner and drinks and just reflect on the day.
We took a couple of day trips out to explore some the canyons and it was amazing. There is no way to explain it is something everyone should see in person.

One of the tour guides. I am quite certain Austin knew exactly where we needed to go.

Mommy and Colby just chillin in the back on the way back to the houseboat.

Mommy and boys just having a good ole time for the afternoon.

Monster boys on the boat.

Pat cooking up our favorite sausage to share with everyone.

All four of us headed out to explore....this was before Austin grabbed the throttle and dumped all 4 of us off in the water where Pat came up with a bloody nose.

Sean and Pat headed out to tear up the lake.

I am pretty sure Sean and Trevor fished every day and at one point they both hooked the same fish.

Pat teaching the boys how to fish...hope they catch something soon.

Luckily they both caught a fish.

Shower time. Colby was not sure about taking a shower in the lake with his swimsuit on and life jacket but he went along with it.

In one of the coves where we had lunch, drinks, showers and fun

Pat and Colby out for a little father-son time

Sean challenged Pat to a race, Pat won.

Colby and Austin had so much fun in the water. They loved swimming right off the back of the boat.

Funny Austin! Ready to hit the water and look for fish.

This is what our sunsets looked like I actually caught Sean still enough for a quick shot.

Cuddle time at night, as the sun goes down and we prepare for another day of fun.

This was just a great family vacation. The families we vacationed with were great and we had the best time. It was very hard to leave but hopefully there will be another trip to Lake Powell in the future.

Our first trip to the lake

2010-08-03T19:06:00.000-07:00

We finally got our boat out of storage and ready for the lake for this summer. The boys couldn't wait to get it in the water.

They had such a good time that they all 3 crashed as we drove back to the boat ramp. Yes, Austin was asleep in this picture. Austin was telling Sean to slow down as he was wake boarding. I am not sure how he thought Sean would be able to slow down but he meant it.
Colby was doing a great job watching Sean and holding the orange safety flag.
Our boys had a great time chillin on the lake

The coolest, most handsome driver

Best Buddies

Hey Mommy, look at me!

"Daddy I want to go really really fast, but not too fast"

Hey I am to cool, no hands.

Go faster!

The boys loved riding in the tube together.

Sean had his hands full with the boys but they laughed the whole time.

Daddy getting ready to show his stuff.

Let's see if Mommy still has it.

yes, she does.

Like Father like Son

The cutest driver on the lake...ok yes I am talking about Colby.

We had such a good time and we look forward to many many more trips to the lake.

Father's Day and so glad Daddy is home

2010-08-03T18:24:00.000-07:00

What a great day we had celebrating Pat and how lucky we were to have him in person to share in it. We started the day off with a great buffet breakfast and because it was such a special day the boys even got ice cream for breakfast because the restaurant was setting up the dessert bar just as we finished breakfast. I love the boys expressions. It warms my heart to see Pat with his boys.
All of his boys.
Daddy got some nice gifts that the boys had to open for him.

Since we had a nice brunch out we decided to grill hot dogs for dinner and this is Pat with his dinner that he actually was very excited to have.

To burn off the calories for the day, the boys decided it was time for a water gun fight. Colby, Austin and Sean all started out playing against each other and it seemed quite fair until.....

Daddy cam around the corner with the monster gun and took them all out!

Sean got the brunt of the big gun and even the lil guys ganged up on Sean along with Daddy.

Austin making a mad dash for safety, towards mommy who had the cameras and was off limits.

"come on Colby, let's go get Sean"

Everyone get Sean!

Watch out, I am loaded and ready.

Mommy getting to enjoy the fun while swinging.

What an awesome father Pat is and I couldn't have asked for a better friend and husband to help raise my family. Pat, Thank you for loving our family and for providing for us as you do. You are the foundation of our family and we are blessed to have you lead our family according to God's word.

Swim Lessons for summer 2010

2010-08-03T17:22:00.000-07:00

This was the first year for the boys to take swim lessons at the local rec center. The first day of swim lessons Colby never got off the steps; however Austin told his teacher "I can swim because I am 4 and I am not shy". Colby waiting to see if he really wanted to get in the water or not.
Austin started by blowing bubbles in the water.
Colby still debating if he was going to get in the water and blow bubbles.

Austin loved swim lessons and couldn't wait for day 2.

On day 2 Colby got in the water. He blew bubbles and even put his face in the water, which was huge improvement from the steps on day one.

Colby with his teacher and he did have a death grip around her neck.

Austin getting ready to show his stuff to the other kids.

Austin headed to the next day of swim lessons.

Colby in deeper water by day 3.

I am so glad we did swim lessons this year. We are on our 3rd session and the boys have become true water bugs. I can't wait to see them going in the deep end, down the slides and off the diving boards.

Austin and Colby turn 4

2010-08-03T12:57:00.001-07:00

I keep asking myself where 4 years have gone. These are the boys that entered the world way to early and each weighed a little over 2 lbs each. They have become true 4 year old boys and I wouldn't have it any other way. They do each have a sensitive, caring side and love each other very much though most of the time instead of hugging they are boxing or wrestling. Guess because they are boys.
Colby is my shy one. He loves to read and his writing is exceptional. He can write his name and most letters. He is his Daddy's bestest buddy. He loves his stuffed animals and watching movies. He weighs about 32 pounds and is catching up on the growth chart. His tubes in his ears have finally fallen out and he passed his hearing test with flying colors. He loves the water and is looking forward to swim lessons and learning to water ski. Austin is my outgoing one. He loves to talk and is normally only quiet when he is asleep, if he is not talking in his sleep. He loves to play going to work or on a trip and always has to have a set of keys. He enjoys coloring and drawing but doesn't like doing school work like letters and numbers. He is a mommy's boy right now but thoroughly enjoys wrestling with daddy. Austin weighs about 35 pounds and is solid. Without a doubt he is on his way to becoming a great football player.

Once again Mommy attempts to make both boys happy with a cool birthday cake. It would be much easier if Lou Lou lived closer to us.

The couldn't wait to have some cake.

All they wanted to do was blow out the candles.

Ok here we go.

Wow they got the best birthday gifts a little boy could ask for...brand new bikes.

Austin has all his safety equipment on and is ready to give his new bike a try.

Here goes Colby to try his new bike and scooter.

Daddy is a good teacher and Colby did an awesome job.

Wonder how many crashes, scrapes and bruises these two are going to have.

Pa-pa got them new scooters.

Here comes Colby.

Ok we just have to teach them to go the same way so they don't crash into each other.

All my guys on the boys' big birthday

Austin is ready for all the presents

"Mommy, this one is just my size, can I have it?"

Colby and Austin, you both have made me and your Daddy so very proud. You have come so far in just four short years and we look forward to the future with you and watching you grow even more. You two have completed our family and we couldn't have asked for better kids than you two. We love you and we thank you for the smiles and the memories.

Colby and Austin's birthday dinner

2010-08-03T12:28:00.000-07:00

For Colby and Austin's 4th birthday dinner we decided to just keep it low key and just our family. So we decided to let the boys decide where we went for dinner and we were not surprised to find ourselves at Chuck E Cheese that night for dinner and fun. A little eye stare down while waiting on pizza.

Birthday hugs for the birthday boys!

Now ready for the games and fun.

What a night of fun for all four of us. And no, you cannot have a motorcycle for your next birthday.

cool gifts from Daddy

2010-08-03T12:01:00.000-07:00

Daddy brought each of the boys some of the coolest gifts. They got Iraq berets and Army jackets with cool patches. The boots are mine but Austin felt he needed them on since Soldiers wear boots.
They also got a Soldier pillow. It has their name in both languages which is very cool.

A true Soldier salute

I just love when they enjoy special gifts from their daddy.

Knucklehead Soldiers, using the wrong hand to salute.

Absolutely handsome.

Our Daddy,our Hero is home!

2010-06-13T18:50:00.000-07:00

Our Hero is home and we couldn't be happier! The boys and I worked hard on their signs as they wanted to make sure Daddy could find them when he got off the plane.
The boys waiting patiently but they could not wait to see the airplane landing

Sean was such a trooper this past year with Daddy being gone but what a great big brother he was for Colby and Austin. I am so proud of him.

Finally the plane lands.

Nothing like some long overdue hugs....

And yes I got the best hug ever! It felt like I lost a lot of weight when I saw Pat get off the plane with a smile from ear to ear. I knew my life was headed back to the way it should be. My best friend was home.

Our family, happy and all smiling.

Daddy had to carry his own bags, but he didn't mind because he was going home.

We all decorated the Yukon so everyone would know how proud we were to have our Daddy home.

Our hero is home!

I love seeing all my boys together, again.

Best of friends and now together again.

I love having him home and to know he served our country to provide each American all the freedoms they have. Thank you to my wonderful husband for giving your all so that I could tuck our boys in bed at night and know we were all safe.

Daddy was exhausted so Colby laid down with him to keep him company.

Words cannot express how blessed we are that our Soldiers served in Iraq without any accidents or deaths. I thank God for keeping them all safe and especially bringing Pat home safe to me and our kids. Pat, you'll never know how much I appreciate your sacrifice and your service. I am proud of you and proud to call you "My Soldier".

My day to feel special....thanks to Colby, Austin, Sean and Lou

2010-05-29T19:01:00.000-07:00

After spending a week in Fort Bliss, Texas for a military trip I flew back home just in time to be with my family on Mother's day. The only one missing was Pat who was still in Iraq. I am very lucky to have Lou in my life and part of my family because she packed her suitcase and headed out to Utah to take care of my two 3 year olds for a week. What a great week Colby and Austin had with Lou. Though she might not have done everything the way Mommy does, she taught them there is more than one way to drive to school, brush their teeth and they even learned a new song or two. Colby couldn't wait to show me my welcome home sign.

I am not sure who knew to use a diet coke as a weight for the balloons but it was perfect.

Austin and Colby felt they still needed to add a little more to the sign even after I was home.

What can I say, other than Thank you God for my family and friends. It is because of You that I am one very happy and blessed Mommy.

Getting ready to take Lou to the airport and no one was happy about that, even though we had smiles on our face. We did have a wonderful visit even if it was a short one.

Lou, my "fill-in" Mom. I could not have asked for a better "fill-in" mom after my mom passed away. Lou has been family for years and I am so thankful to have her in my life.

The boys loved the balloons, Mommy loves the diet coke!

The boys got to pick our location for Mother's Day lunch....when I asked the two 3 year olds they both instantly said...."McDonald's". So off we headed to the best Mother's Day lunch with my two lil heroes.

Mommy enjoying her lunch.

Colby and Austin practicing riding a motorcycle. I am not sure why because this Mommy is not going to allow that!
Austin made me a cake.....I love it.I had a great Mother's day and each year I learn to appreciate my own Mom even more. I know realize how much she sacrificed and how much she loved her kids. I only wish she were around to love and spoil her grand kids. Thank you Mom, for teaching me how to be a great Mom. I owe it all to you!

Big Steps for Colby and Austin

2010-05-29T17:57:00.000-07:00

Colby and Austin are turning into big boys each and every day. We have been working very hard at potty training and finally have that accomplished being "potty trainded" at least during the day.

Yeah, they each got their own package of big boy underwear.
Colby was very proud to get his pack.

Austin wanted his opened immediately.

The funny part was they had to try on all 14 pair before they could decide which pair they were going to wear first.

Austin opted for spiderman.
Here is one happy Mommy! Just thinking about the money I will save by only using 2 pull ups per day versus 6-8.

I just thought this was too cute. Sharing a Gatorade but the hard part for the boys was they each wanted to drink the most.

Our latest O'Leary fashions.....

Austin is sporting plaid shorts, striped shirt, winter gloves, Mom's boots, sunglasses and purse.

"I'm ready, so what are you waiting for?"

Colby who usually does not want any part of dress up decided to join in.

Colby has on plaid shorts, striped shirt, snow boots, winter gloves, sunglasses and a red manbag.

I was just happy for once he let me take a picture of him.

"Ok mom, that is enough, I told you only one and you have taken like 400".

I just love my boys and their creative minds. I love how open they are becoming and how grown up. How time flies and I remember when they were lil babies and I wondered what kind of toddlers they would be. Thank you boys, for loving me no matter what and making me smile on those hard days. You are making me one proud Mommy.

An afternoon at Liberty Pary

2010-05-28T17:58:00.000-07:00

The boys and I took advantage of a nice afternoon in Utah. We headed down to Liberty park that has one area to feed ducks and one area that has several playgrounds. Needless to say we hit the whole park. We just finished feeding the ducks.

The boys loved all the "lil bitty baby ducks that need their momma"
Austin was not sure what was about to happen so he froze but Colby made a break for it

My handsome boy, Colby who actually stopped long enough for me to take a photo.
Now moving on to the fun of the playground.

They had so much fun climbing, jumping, and running. Needless to say they slept very well that night.

We had such a great day and the boys cannot wait to take Daddy on a picnic to the park.

International Fair at school

2010-05-11T17:37:00.000-07:00

So don't they look like they could be from Iraq.....of course they do. They were given Iraq to represent at the International fair.
We tried to be creative with their attire...guess we did ok. The loved it so that was all that mattered to me. Colby is in rare form

Daddy would have been so proud

Thank goodness Daddy sent us some stuff from Iraq for Christmas. We could not have done it without the soldier camel

Their map showed where Daddy is in Al Asad

Colby and his buddy

Loves for the camel

All ready to head to the school

Austin was very proud of his Daddy

We had posters, scarves, camel and we even made Iraqi cookies

The cookies looked much better than they tasted. Not enough sugar for me or the kids.

The boys told everyone who came by about their Daddy in Iraq and ensured they all had a cookie.